I’ve met, spoken with and have gone to church with pedophiles and didn’t know it. That happened over 20 years ago while I was in prison doing my “Time” for burglary. These degenerates seek the secure feeling of carrying a bible, working in the prison church and staying close to the Chaplain. Pedophiles realize that almost the entire prison population would gladly cut thier collective throats if they could get away with it. That fact being said, lets take a look at what we, our loved ones and espeacially our children are dealing with in our everyday lives.
Pedophiles Can be Anyone: They can be young or old, rich or poor, educated or uneducated, professional or non-professional and any race or religion. However pedophiles often demonstrate similar characteristics.
Characteristics of a Pedophile:
1. Often the pedophile is male and over 30 years old.
2. Single and with few friends in his or her age group…yes a woman can be a pedophile.
3. If married thier relationship is more “companion” based with no sexual relations.
4. He or she is often vauge about gaps in time with employment which may indicate a loss of employment or questionable behavior or possible past incarceration.
Pedophiles Like Child-Like Activities:
1. Thier fascinated with children, child activities and prefer those activities over adult oriented activities.
2. He or she will often refer to children in pure or angelic terms describing them as innocent, heavenly and divine.
3. They have hobbies that are child like such as collecting popular toys, keeping reptiles, exotic pets or building plane and car models.
Pedophiles Often Prefer Children Close to Puberty:
1. Pedophiles often have a specific age they target.
2. Often they have a special room decorated in child-like decor.
3. Many pedophiles prefer children close to puberty who are sexually inexperienced but curious about sex.
Pedophiles Try to Work Around Children:
The pedophile will often be employed in a job that involves daily contact with children. They also do volunteer work with children, sports coaching or unsupervised tutoring of a child.
The Target Child:
The pedophile often seeks out shy, handicapped, withdrawn or those children who come from troubled or under-privileged homes. He/She then showers them with attention, gifts, trips to desirable placeslike amusement parks, zoo’s, concerts or the beach.
The “Stockholm Syndrome”:
It’s not unusual for the child to develop feelings for the predator and desire thier approval and continued acceptance. This is often compared to the “Stockholm Syndrome”—where victims become attached emotionally to thier captors.
The Single Parent:
Many times pedophiles will develop a close relationship with a single parent in order to get close to thier children. Once inside the home, they have many opportunities to manipulate the children–using guilt, fear and love to confuse the child.
Almost all pedophiles have a collection of pornography, which they protect at all costs.Many of them also collect “souvenirs” from thier victims. Often pedophiles are not brought to justice until the victims are angered by being victimized and want to protect other children from the same consequences.
I hope this blog will help all who read it become aware of the deceit, treachery and manipulation used by all pedophiles. My personal opinion is that anyone given a fair trial, convicted and incarcerated should be kept behind bars for as long as possible, hopefully for the rest of thier useless perverted lives. It’s a proven fact that there is no “Cure”, “Remission” or “Treatment” that works for any sexual predator. Until such time that there’s proven and documented treatment that will definately prevent these perverts from inflicting thier horrid behavior on the innocents of our society I beleive they should never be released from prison unless castrated!